In my post Home is Where The Heart Is, some of you asked questions and others wanted more info. So today I shall try to answer these questions and give a few more tips on keeping a tidy and sweet running home.
Okay, hang on to your chairs now because I am going to tell you something that is true and maybe even profound. Did you know that cleaning your house is easy? Now hear me out. It's easy to clean the house. It gives us a very domesticated, cozy, and settled feeling. We get inspired and so we sort through closets, making piles for thrift stores and pile for garage sales and piles for the cousins and still other piles for missionaries overseas, and when we're done we feel quite smug and contented with our little selves.
Did you hear me when I said that's easy? So then why do so many people sit in untidy homes? I'll tell you why. Cleaning your house doesn't take any discipline. It doesn't take character. It really doesn't even take much skill. BUT...maintaining a clean house takes all of the above, and that's where women are missing the boat!
When a friend stops by unexpectedly your tidy home that you welcome her into doesn't just happen by chance. I've had more than one person tell me that they could keep a clean home too if they had my house. No, you couldn't. Ive said this on one of my other housecleaning posts but it bears repeating. If you had my house you would keep it like you keep your house. You see, it's easy to think the carpet is easier to clean on the other side of the fence but it's not.
For Christian women it's doubly important that you keep a shiny and comfortable home because we have been told to be women given to hospitality. I cant tell you how many times I hear women say that they cant have anyone over because they're house is too messy. Now sure there are those days when even Kings palaces become messy and life gets hectic and you have to say no, but when you can NEVER invite a friend in it's time to reevaluate your cleaning habits.
I was asked if I do my work in the morning before homeschooling or in the afternoon. I do the morning work before school.
That consists of making my bed, checking the kids beds to make sure they're made, starting a load of laundry, getting breakfast on, and cleaning up the kitchen after we eat. It's really not much. I wait until after school to do the cleaning for the day. It's easier for me to switch to school mode if I'm not knee deep into housecleaning.
Before I even do the morning work above though I get up and have my quiet time (I fight this one all the time) then take my shower.
I keep a can of cleaning Bubbles on the shelf in the shower. Before ever getting out of the shower I spray the self cleaning Bubbles all over. I got this tip several years ago from a reader and I've used it since. You truly never have to scrub your tub and shower again if you use this stuff. After getting out of the shower and dressed, I gather up all laundry and towels and take them to the hamper.
Then I head into the school room to finish any last minute lesson planning and prep. I do most of that at night before bed. In the morning I just refresh my mind on what I'm going to do and tackle any bothersome little task that I was too tired to do the night before, usually the printing. I somehow have vast amounts of printing to do in my homeschool. My printer cranks out papers all day long.
After the schoolroom I usually write my entry in my blog. While I'm doing that I'm running the printer with the school stuff. My desk gets messy but I leave it until after school. I can only do much before the kids get up. On summer mornings I do all the outside watering while they're in bed because it can be done without waking them with all my banging and such. By the way, my school and office are upstairs on the other end of the house so I can do all that without waking them too. I also eat my breakfast at this time.
Usually by now it's seven and time to wake the kids. On summer mornings they waken on their own around 8 am. We have breakfast and I talk to them about the day. Tink clears the table.
After school both kids help me clean. It usually only takes half an hour on their part. I do the cleaning and they do the running. It just goes so much faster this way. For those of you who like the nitty gritty, here's how it works. I'm cleaning the living room so I take both kids with me. Kids can't seem to see anything smaller than a rocking horse in the middle of the room. Have you ever noticed that?
This is where working with them comes into play. I say; Tink, go through this room and pick up every pencil and every book that goes into the school room and put it away. Peter, take this truck and these hotwheels to your room. Both of you come right back.
I continue cleaning the room but rarely leaving it. I swish the feather duster over things and straighten the couch pillows and when they return I load their arms with any thing else I have found. In this manner we move from room to room. I dont vacuum or sweep floors at this point. This is just decluttering. We can go through the rooms very quickly this way.
After picking up the rooms Tinks sweeps the hardwood floors and I vacuum for the day. The mornings laundry is folded and put away by both of us. I almost never empty the dishwasher. Tink does that. Peter loves to mop. So I let him mop the kitchen floor after Tink sweeps. At their ages neither job is done perfectly. I use a handy dandy little mop that I bought at Home Depot. It's light weight and the mop part comes off to be thrown in the wash machine. A half hour after beginning the kids are ready to go play until evening chores. I keep Clorox wipes in every bathroom. The kids are taught to wipe down the sink and then the toilet ring after they use it. In that order too, mind you! :) I wash out all burner plates when I wash the stove after dinner. Again this saves me a big stove top cleaning day.
I rarely sit and watch TV without my hands doing something. If I want to watch a show I fold laundry or iron or grab a drawer that has gotten messy or sort papers, or hoist one of the kids sock drawers onto my lap and sort the socks that they've undone, or some thing, but I almost never just sit there.
Okay this is getting quite lengthy. If you're interested in more on applicable chores for your kids you can click on Age Appropriate Chores for a complete list.
Now can you see a little bit more why I say cleaning house is easy but the real test is in the daily maintenance? Feel free to leave any questions that you might have, in the comments. I will gladly answer them. I'm sure there are other means to the end but I'm just sharing with you how I personally keep up on things.
Wednesday, August 08, 2007
Be it ever so humble, there's no place like home
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Whew...I'm tired. :) Thanks for sharing your routine in detail and for the inspiration for us to keep cleaner homes.
Hi, Mrs. Darling,
One thing you keep mentioning is that you are working with your children, so that they know how to clean, and are in the habit of helping to clean. This is so important, not only to keeping a clean home, but also to the children's welfare. Children who truly help with the work of the family know that they are an important part of that family. They are not helpless royalty who need their mother to wait upon them.
I agreed with your post. We have a large home and a large family (nine children). My children do so much of the work. We wouldn't have such a clean and comfortable home without the hard work they contribute.
Mrs. Darling, your homekeeping posts have been very imformative and definitely challenging. I'm thoroughly exhausted after reading about your day. ;-)
The biggest bane of my existence at home is the shower. It's never clean enough for my taste and right now being almost 40 weeks pregnant I haven't been able to scrub even half as strong.
What is this cleaning Bubbles and where do I get it please?
I think you can get it at any grocery store. Its called Scrubbing Bubbles. It comes in a spray can. I know cleaning the shower was my very worst job!
I do some of your ideas already Mrs D except mine gets done at night :-)
This is exactly what I needed to hear. This plan is much more doable in my little brain than the plans that have you doing a certain task each day, and making a notebook.If that works for ya, fine. But I just get bogged down in making the notebook and then never look at it. Thanks for this info. I will be chewin' on it all day! SusansBf
I love you, I love you, I LOVE YOU! I'm really not trying to be weird, I just REALLY needed this and your previous post on this subject! I am one of those who wasn't taught, and I certainly feel like I'm making bricks without straw. Add to that the fact that I've made laziness a habit (OUCH that hurts to say out loud!).
I'm adding you to my blogroll! (((((HUGS))))) sandi
I have similar methods. It's all about maintenance. If you spend time every day keeping it maintained it won't get out of hand. I take care of things right away so it doesn't build up and become overwhelming and also involve the children. They know that if they make a mess, they clean it up. If they use a dish, they put it in the dishwasher. When the dishwasher is finished running, dishes are put away as soon as they're dry.
I can't stand being in a messy house. I didn't used to be like this. My husband is a neat freak and to make him happy I've adapted and now I'm happy like this.
Well tee i have to say Im a bit in the same boat. My husband is neat in everything he does and Ive learned mnay things from him on how to maintain.
sandi glad I could be of some help LOL
susansbf good to see you around again. You've made some big changes lately. Dont try to do it all at once. You'll get there! Glad to see you here again the last couple of days.
And yes amy Im a morning person. I just hit a wall at night and cant work around it.
I just put you up on my Titus 2 pedestal girfriend. Thx for the tips. Your Scrubbing Bubbles thingy works! That's my shower/tub cleaning method too.
I leave for work around 7:30am, and I get home from work around 7:30pm. By the time I throw dinner together I am way too tired to clean! I often fall asleep on the couch after dinner. I'm sure if I was at home my house would be much cleaner - with things the way they are it gets a quick clean once a week on a Saturday morning.
Here I sit in my little puky/poopy house. The dining room floor is being replaced and all the stuff is sitting in the great room. I have yet to clean up the dog's puky kennel, nor finished washing Nathan's potty accident this afternoon. The day started off grand ... beds made, dishes done ... then the day fell apart and fast. Hope tomorrow is less dramatic. Send help and fast please ;)
If you can, please tell me the name of that mop you use!! Sounds great! I am not happy with mine and over the years have tried plenty of them. I am getting to where I do not have strength in my hands to wring things out either. Your other ideas are very helpful too!
Elizabeth I tried to find a pic of it online at Home Depots website and I cant find it. The bottom of it is only about 18 inches long and it has velcro on it. The mop pad is actually like a wash cloth and you put in on their and mop. Then you peel it off and throw it in the washer. You use it over and over. It turns into a dust mop by slapping the dust mop top onto the velcro pad. Its interchangable like that.
Hi Mrs D,
I just wanted to add a word for those organizationally challanged (including myself) who might be overwhelmed by their homemaking shortcomings.
I read a book some years ago called "Sidetracked Home Executives" by Pam Young and Peggy Jones, aka the slob sisters.
It was a releif to me to find that someone else was in the same boat and had acually found a way to paddle the darn thing.
(I have since met Pam and she is as fun and funny as her books.)
Some of us are wading in years of clutter and don't have any idea where to start. I'm not necessarily talking about housekeeping ideas but help for the sidetracked.
There was a time I didn't want anyone in my home. But, I have honestly changed. My house stays clean. My kids have been taught. You take it out, you put it up. I'm shocked my 8 year old has picked it up better then my 17 year old.LOL
I do have a cleaning list. But, that is because my daughter doesn't even see that rocking horse you were talking about. I have to print it out word for word for her. I'm hoping someday she will get the idea.
I remember a home I went to. We had to move junk just to walk to the kitchen. No one sat down. (other then the floor) I cloudn't get over how she thought it was ok to make her family live like that.
My big problem is. My husband has to keep everything! I have tossed many things and he has no idea. If I didn't there would be no room for the family. He has a garage now so that is where everything is. But, everytime he goes out of town for work. I clean out a box or two. He's leaving on Monday. I'll have a box gone by Tuesday morning. LOL
Have a Blessed Day!
Ive heard of that book cathrine but never read it. I ve been to your house and I didnt think your house was so bad. Of course that was many years ago. All I really recall is that there was laundry on the bed and I just helped myself to folding it while we were visiting. LOL
And Rebecca there is certainly nothing wrong with making a list and keeping a schedule. Many people do it succesfully. In my mind I know what room gets priority every day but its not written down. Thats funny about your husband. Well I say if he doesnt miss it than he doesnt need it now does he?
Wow, this is great information. And I love the new layout.
I've used shower sprays before, but not the scrubbing bubbles one. Does it have to be rinsed?
No it doesnt!
thanks for looking anyway...I will look the next time we are in a town that has Home Depot...all we have is Lowe's here...but perhaps they might carry such as well, because they do carry cleaning supplies I can no longer find elsewhere, like Simple Green. Good tools certainly make jobs easier, even inside the home!!
What an interesting informative post...I'll have to look for Scrubbing bubbles too. =). Great post Mrs.D. and again, I love your new template..its SO cheery!
Thank you for your comment on my blog post of the other day. I really appreciated your comment - I can't believe 12 kids. Wow. I think 4 is quite the hand-ful. I must go back and read how you keep your house clean.
You are so right -it's the daily maintenance. Of course, I'm also trying to keep ahead of the little kids. They make what was once clean into a really good mess. :-)
Mrs D, maybe people think if they had your house they could keep it clean, 'cause they figure you would come along with the house.
Great ideas - I need to work on this. How early do you rise? THIS is my problem. I'm working on getting up earlier, but I'm just not naturally a morning person. But I know I can train myself and readjust my clock if I work at it.
Scrubbing Bubbles - do you know of a "natural" alternative? I have a problem with almost all conventional cleaners - they leave me wheezing and sneezing...I make almost all of my own household cleaners, but not sure how to replicate the miracle of Scrubbing Bubbles.
Jennifer Im not good on natural alternatives to cleaners. I know almost nothing about them. I usually get up between 6:30 and 7:00 but this past week its been more like 5:30.
comfy denim, indeed children make incredible messes. In my book toys on the floor, cheerios on the highchair, and blankies tossed on the floor does not make a house messy. I think a house should look like kids live there. Its when it looks like little piggys live there that we have a problem. LOl
i personally love this post. It gives me hope and a swift kick just where needed. I have been simpliyfing for years, and just in the last couple of years incorporated a routine, and involved the children. I keep telling myself that if we do the routine every day, then everything will go smoother and things will get less cluttered and messy, etc etc.
love the scrubbing bubbles thing....one thing that seems to always throw me off is coming home from a holiday or a visit somewhere and unloading the car/gifts/suitcases, etc. Any hints on that?
Catherine mentioned "Sidetracked Home Executives" and I wanted to second that book. I used it YEARS ago when my home was so bad I don't think I could have found the bedroom floor. No one was ever allowed in. Boy did it help. I can't say one wants to live with the card system forever but if you really need help learning what all goes into housekeeping and creating some habits towards cleaning, that's a good place to start.
I doubt it would be useful for those already fairly competent but nothing helps the clueless break individual needs and tasks down as much as forcing a clueless housekeeper to do it herself and put it all on 3X5 cards can. I've refined the system recently and built filing card hangers for the children's chores, though they've not used theirs quite long enough to give a report to the effectiveness just yet.
Working with kids is awesome and I wish I had done it more with my older two, though they do okay with their cleaning now. My parents just gave occasional orders and I don't remember ever cleaning with my mother even one time. Perhaps that is why I couldn't find my floor all those years ago?
Cheryl (a.k.a. Konk)
alipur the biggest hint I can give you is to inload it all right away!
I pack seperate suitcases for each child; the little ones on rollers. They are responsible for their suitcase in and out of motels and up until the time it is emptied at home. I do all the laundry before we leave to go home. Then I pack the kids bags with their individual laundry. When we get home that suitcase goes directly to their room and all the clothes in it are ready for them to put into their drawers. The last minute dirty clothes from vacation go in the front zipper pocket on my huge master suitcase.
For the rest of the stuff: My husband stands in the boat or at the back fo the SUV and hands the stuff to the kids. They bring it in and hand it to me then go back out for more stuff from Dad. Of course they're all done before I am! LOL
Anything in the back seat where the kids sit is theres to clean up. Hubby and I dont even touch it.
Just dont procrastinate in emptying things out or you will find the job grows bigger and bigger in your mind until the suitcases have set their a week and you're pulling out what you need just like you were doing on vacation!
Cheryl and Cathrine, my sister has 12 kids and she used that index system to teach her kids how to thoroughly clean house. She too tweaked it to meet her needs. Personally I find the cards to much busy work! But then if you recall I cant even make a grocery list without my skin crawling.
Thank you for sharing on my blog that you're human (food=comfort)! IMO, anyone who can stay organized is a HUGE step above me in every other way, too! (((((HUGS))))) sandi
You always inspire me with posts like this! I get bogged down in the everyday messes. Particularly, the destruction of the 2-year-old! But my house is much better off than it used to be. Not that I don't have a way to go, but I'm getting there!
I enjoyed this post as well. It inspires me to try even more to have a clean home.
Saving the cleaning until after the schoolwork makes much more sense. I'm going to try that! Thanks!
The mopping system you are referring to is a Rubbermaid microfiber mop.
Thats right peace. Thank you.
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